Why Honesty Is An Attractive Quality

I’m starting to realize that honesty is a quality that so few people don’t have or don’t embrace. I just lost a prospective client because I was too honest. The guy was on a deadline and needed a site up in less than the time I quoted. Apparently, he found another vendor who could meet [...]

You Can’t Fix People. You Can Only Fix Yourself

Got back into town and first thing on the list was to get on the phone and help a friend who was having relationship issues. She was so frustrated and sad as she no longer had control of the situation. The guy needed time off to think about things. She wanted to stay “connected” with [...]

5 Reasons Why Every Guy Should Learn To Cook.

I’ve only been proactively learning how to cook as of this year. I’ve cooked in the past but it’s only this year that I’ve taken it up with a fervor and really experimented with ingredients and dishes of all types.

An Open Letter To Women (and Men) On Courtesy and Dating.

The following is an email letter I wrote to a girl who didn’t have the courage to say ‘no’ to me when I asked her for a follow-up date. It’s self-explanatory. I publish this because I would hope it gives food for thought for both men and women in how you treat others. Not just [...]

The Lack of Courtesy and Respect That One Person Shows.

What is with people nowadays and their complete lack of courtesy and etiquette? Case in point: I have 2 friends (guy and girl) who I thought should meet each other and see where it might go. I thought they would look cute together. So here is how I set them up; I emailed both privately [...]

5 Ways To Win Over A Girl.

I was looking to create a new CD of the best R&B slowjam songs of the 90s era. I know the 80s was known for great rock. But I felt that some of the best R&B slowjams were found in the 90s. It’s hard to find great memorable slowjams today. In my search of creating [...]

Dating in DC. Finding That Special Someone.

Lately, I have people (mostly girls) coming to me and saying that dating in DC is tough. Not surprising. It tends to be like this in most big cities. In a big city like this, there is an abundance of options as to whom we wish to date or go out with. It’s both a [...]

Can A Guy Have Too Many Female Friends?

I don’t know. But I sure do wish I had more guy friends at times. There is a growing perception amongst my circle of friends and acquaintances that I am a “player” of sorts. I’ve also gotten “ladies man” as well. Boy- nothing could be further from the truth. I started to really notice this [...]

My Heart.

The following is how my heart will always remember you. Thank you for everything. Heart to heart. ———————————- My heart is always there for you, Especially when you’re sad and blue. It bleeds for you, In times of when you need to seek what’s true. It longs for you, When you’re away and it doesn’t [...]

Holy Crap. I’m a matchmaker!

I just realized that I’m partly responsible for 5 matches amongst my friends. Wow- I’m pretty damn good. It’s like if you just hang around me for awhile, good things are bound to happen. First we have;

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