5 Ways To Win Over A Girl.

I was looking to create a new CD of the best R&B slowjam songs of the 90s era. I know the 80s was known for great rock. But I felt that some of the best R&B slowjams were found in the 90s. It’s hard to find great memorable slowjams today. In my search of creating [...]

Hybrid Friendships: In Business and In Life

I had a chance to sit down and talk to Kady for the first time after some virtual run-ins in cyberspace. She reached out first and it was only natural to reciprocate because I wanted to explore some possible synergies between us. But the other reason to meeting her is that it’s very rare for [...]

Rebuilding My Social Network

Recently, I lost my 2 closest friends. One moved away and another due to extreme circumstances. My other closer friends are now dating other people. I don’t see them much. It took me about 2 years to rebuild what I have today- a pretty decent social network. Some are close friends, some are friends, and [...]

Re-engineering the traditional happy hour mixer format.

Here’s the problem with current happy hour mixers that I see. I know of a few groups that organize big happy hours. Mostly young adults. Some get 50 people. Some get 200 and over. Problem is, it’s not that effective. Well, I guess it depends on what your goal is. If people continue to come [...]

Thought of the day: Put The “Relate” Back In Relationships.

My thought of the day; Regardless if it’s professional, personal, or intimate, you can’t have a relationship unless you know how to relate. A few simple tips on relating; Seek first to understand and then be understood. Ask questions- Most people I know don’t ask alot of questions. But they sure do assume alot. Seek [...]

Dating in DC. Finding That Special Someone.

Lately, I have people (mostly girls) coming to me and saying that dating in DC is tough. Not surprising. It tends to be like this in most big cities. In a big city like this, there is an abundance of options as to whom we wish to date or go out with. It’s both a [...]

Can A Guy Have Too Many Female Friends?

I don’t know. But I sure do wish I had more guy friends at times. There is a growing perception amongst my circle of friends and acquaintances that I am a “player” of sorts. I’ve also gotten “ladies man” as well. Boy- nothing could be further from the truth. I started to really notice this [...]

What Do You Love Most About Him/Her?

What if there was a site that allowed you to declare what you love most about your partner. That one person in your life that makes your soul sing with glee. It wouldn’t matter if it’s a new relationship, just got married, or been with each other forever. What if

My Heart.

The following is how my heart will always remember you. Thank you for everything. Heart to heart. ———————————- My heart is always there for you, Especially when you’re sad and blue. It bleeds for you, In times of when you need to seek what’s true. It longs for you, When you’re away and it doesn’t [...]

Holy Crap. I’m a matchmaker!

I just realized that I’m partly responsible for 5 matches amongst my friends. Wow- I’m pretty damn good. It’s like if you just hang around me for awhile, good things are bound to happen. First we have;

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