You Can’t Fix People. You Can Only Fix Yourself

Got back into town and first thing on the list was to get on the phone and help a friend who was having relationship issues. She was so frustrated and sad as she no longer had control of the situation. The guy needed time off to think about things. She wanted to stay “connected” with [...]

Dating, Men, and Leadership.

I still remember the conversation like it happened yesterday. I was on this date with Karen over the summer. It was our third date and I thought I’d surprise her with a picnic. It was beautiful weather and we sat there lounging for several hours just talking and canoodling like little kids. Somehow, the conversation [...]

Qualities To Look For In Her.

A list of questions that I’ve gathered to always keep in the back of the mind. Should help guys from being broken-hearted and choosing the wrong woman (which we often do). Divorce rate wouldn’t be so high if we did a better job of choosing the right woman. I judge people based on their actions [...]

Dating: The Less You Know, The Better

Deanism; “True power doesn’t lie in knowing. True power lies in knowing what to do with what you know.” Nothing could be more true in the world of dating. The proliferation of media and how it represents love, sex, and dating today, contributes to what many us know about dating. Or so we think. But [...]