Dean Is On Fire

Things That A Guy Shouldn’t Do To A Girl

Posted on | June 25, 2009 | 1 Comment

A few things that a guy shouldn’t do to a girl. I’m sure I’ll find more as people chime in with their comments. I will update periodically.

  1. Don’t put her on a throne and treat her like a princess. This is especially true during the early phase of dating. Some women have a good head on their shoulders and learn to take that sort of princess treatment in stride. But others end up getting spoiled by that sort of treatment and end up taking advantage of you. If you do it too much, she’ll run all over you.
  2. Don’t ask her out over text message. Women want to feel wanted and best to ask over phone. Email is sort of a grey area with some folks. I blame the proliferation of web technology, social media, and Generation Y for this type of behavior. It’s so impersonal. Dating and romance is anything but.
  3. Don’t break up with her over text message. It’s a cowardly thing to do. Grow some balls. She deserves some level of closure and a reason why.
  4. Don’t let her get away with everything. I once met a girl at a singles event who said that that she wanted a guy who would put up a fight with her in the beginning, but in the end, she wanted him to let her get away with everything. You can’t imagine how much I was holding back inside when I heard her say that. Accountability is key in a relationship. If she does something wrong, let her know about it.
  5. Don’t get all clingy with her especially in the beginning. I never understood what women meant by this until I was at a singles event. I saw quite a few guys just hanging around these girls whom they just met at the event. It was obvious to me by the girls’ body language that they wanted them to go away. True power is not approaching a woman but learning when to walk away from a woman.
  6. Don’t call her 3 times a day if she hasn’t responded yet. I’ve heard stories of guys asking a girl out and when she doesn’t respond back within a few hours, he would keep calling back. It makes you look like a stalker amongst other things.

What else?

Category: Me, Relationships

Comments

One Response to “Things That A Guy Shouldn’t Do To A Girl”

  1. DeAnna Troupe
    June 25th, 2009 @ 11:29 am

    Don’t act like you know everything about everything (even if you do).

Leave a Reply